Walker Lamond, “Rules for my Unborn Son,” at New Dominion 12/19

Coming to New Dominion Bookshop:

Walker Lamond will present selections from and sign copies of his new book

Rules for My Unborn Son

Saturday, December 19 at 3:30 PM

“Inspiration and laughter for sons and dads alike.” —Wired

“Someone get this man a column in Esquire.” —Urban Daddy

“My new favorite blog.” —Sam Reich, CollegeHumor.com

“Sound wisdom … enough meat to evoke chuckles of recognition. It’s a nice, happy read, and you might just learn something.” -About.com

Based on Walker Lamond’s highly praised and popular blog, Rules for My Unborn Son is a collection of traditional, humorous, and urbane fatherly advice for boys. From the sartorial (“If you are tempted to wear a cowboy hat, resist”) to the practical (“Keep a copy of your letters. It makes it easier for your biographer”) to even a couple of sure-fire hangover cures (“There is no better remedy than a dip in the ocean”), the book of rules and accompanying quotations is quite simply an instruction manual for becoming a Good Man—industrious, thoughtful, charming, and of course, well-dressed.

Rules for My Unborn Son began simply as writer and filmmaker Lamond’s personal blog, intended “to preserve the lessons my father had taught me, and perhaps add my spin on what makes a Good Man,” he explains. “I hoped to have a son of my own one day, so I thought it best to write it all down before the before the mayhem of actual fatherhood made me too soft or too sanctimonious, and most importantly, before my own childhood was too distant in the rear view mirror.” It became a father-to-be’s promise to his future son “To get some things straight before I get old and uncool.”

  • If you choose to wear a tie, commit. Button your top button.
  • Stand up to bullies. You’ll only have to do it once.
  • If you attend a late after-party, have an exit strategy
  • Keep a well-stocked bar
  • Thank the bus driver
  • Girls like boys who shower
  • Don’t spit

Hip and witty with a decidedly traditionalist flavor, Rules for My Unborn Son is meant to evoke simpler times when Father knew best and a suitable answer to “Why?” was “Because I said so.”

Walker Lamond is a writer and television producer. His documentaries have appeared on the Discovery Channel, National Geographic Channel, TruTV, and HBO, and he has written for numerous publications including Stop Smiling magazine, Valet, Babble, and Asylum. Lamond is a 1997 graduate of the University of Virginia. He once lived above Miller’s on the Downtown Mall. He currently lives in Washington, D.C. with his wife and their son, who arrived shortly after the completion of this book.

Next WordSmith Poetry Jam December 16 at Random Row

Looks like more excitement is in store from WordSmith Poetry Jam:

Mark your event calenders and invite all your friends

The next WordSmith Poetry Jam will be on Wednesday, December 16th.

  • Location: Random Row Books (315 West Main Street). It’s on the corner of Main and McIntire across from Greyhound.
  • Time: 7-10pm – Open Mic Sign Up Starts at 7pm. Show Starts at 7:30pm.
  • Cost: Just $5

Expect some of Charlottesville’s most dynamic poets and spoken word artists all night. We will also have soulful selections from Lester Jackson & Naughty Dynamic and the Design.
This month’s feature is upcoming actress and poet Sabrina Gilbert. Sabrina has performed at college conferences, venues and theaters along the east coast and in the Midwest. In 2008 she became the Grand Slam Champion of Slam Richmond’s 2008 team, making her the first woman to do so! She also helped start Lyric Ave in 2003, which today is the largest poetry show on the east coast (consistently serving an audience of over 800 people). Her debut album ‘Come Get Me’ took her colleagues by storm with it’s electrifying tracks and powerful messages!!! Sabrina is currently on a 2009 tour (that started in the U.S. and will extend to the Canada and Europe) while writing her first book (to release in the winter of 2009/2010) and preparing for the world premiere of the play ‘Great George’ which is scheduled to run in early 2010.

BookBalloon to discuss Sea of Poppies in December

December Reading Club

Sea of Poppies by Amitav Ghosh

Sea of Poppies by
Amitav Ghosh

From The Guardian:

This terrific novel, the first volume in a projected trilogy, unfolds in north India and the Bay of Bengal in 1838 on the eve of the British attack on the Chinese ports known as the first opium war. In Sea of Poppies, Amitav Ghosh assembles from different corners of the world sailors, marines and passengers for the Ibis, a slaving schooner now converted to the transport of coolies and opium. In bringing his troupe of characters to Calcutta and into the open water, Ghosh provides the reader with all manner of stories, and equips himself with the personnel to man and navigate an old-fashioned literary three-decker.

Come aboard with us in December for Sea of Poppies. Registration is free. Discussion begins December 11.

links for 2009-12-01

  • "So unless they are geniuses—and recognized as such—writers who want attention for their work need to cultivate some 21st-century media skills. They should be camera-ready, because they'll want to make YouTube videos. They should know their way around social networking sites. They should have some experience with book clubs, and they should be willing to spend as much time there as they used to spend on book tours. Who should finance these virtual media tours? My vote is for the publishers of books that stand a chance to succeed to attach $5,000 to $10,000 to the advance, money the writer can use only for digital marketing expenses and Web site enhancement."
  • "The title Oh! Calcutta! was inspired by a painting by the Surrealist Clovis Trouille (1889-1975) called Oh! Calcutta! Calcutta!; it depicts a reclining woman draped in rich fabrics and revealing a pair of plump buttocks decorated with tattooed fleur-de-lis…"

    A funny story. Warning: There are buttocks.

  • "To get your free copy of Nail Your Novel, just click on the cover picture above, save to your hard drive and you’re done!"

    Free book! Yay! Via http://twitter.com/litdrift

Meet Me at the Mountain at New Dominion December 17

Coming to New Dominion Bookshop:

The following event is a repeat presentation by Mark Andrews at New Dominion.

Mark A. Andrews will present selections from his interactive, multisensory adventure

Meet Me At The Mountain

Thursday, December 17 at 5:30 PM

Come join Emerald Eagle and his six animal friends, each with differing abilities, as they go on an inspiring quest for adventure that changes their lives and most certainly will change yours. In pursuit of a common goal, the animal friends must confront a series of challenges while hiking, climbing, cross country skiing, snowshoeing, and downhill skiing. These activities test their friendship, courage, and teamwork while serving to unite them as they discover new independence along the way.

The first of its kind, Meet Me At The Mountain is a delightful story. Using an interactive multi-sensory approach, the MMATM education project was conceptualized and developed to educate you about how persons with differing abilities often do amazing things to overcome life’s many challenges.

Produced in four different formats, this inspirational story will be enjoyed by everyone!

Interactive DVD – Music Version

Interactive DVD – Sign Language Version

Illustrated Print Version

Illustrated Braille Version

Meet Me At The Mountain is Mark’s first children’s book and children’s education project. He is the Founder/Executive Director of Therapeutic Adventures, Inc. – a non-profit 501(c)(3) charitable education organization.

THERAPEUTIC ADVENTURES—the premier provider of adaptive outdoor programs and specialty services for persons of all ages with differing abilities – (physical and developmental) disabilities, chronic medical impairments, and other special health needs.

With close to three decades of service, TA is committed to providing greater access to adaptive outdoor recreation (Adaptive Snow Sports, Adaptive Water Sports, and Adaptive Wilderness Adventures).As one of the pioneer leaders in the adaptive outdoor industry, Mark has been designing and providing unique adaptive outdoor programs and improving outdoor accessibility for persons with differing abilities for close to three decades.

Mark has authored several publications and provided numerous workshops/training programs about safety, ethics, leadership development, service and volunteerism, environmental accessibility, adaptive equipment design, and other adaptive programming topics. Mark has served as a consultant for medical and rehabilitation centers, therapeutic education programs, universities, businesses and non-profit organizations nationally and internationally. Mark has received numerous awards for teaching and service. For his lifelong commitment to volunteer service, Mark received the coveted Jefferson Award – from the American Institute of Public Service.

Wendell Berry speaking in Charlottesville December 3

The Bridge PAI is co-sponsoring this event:
Brown College Visiting Environmental Writer and Scholars (ViEWS) Lecture Series, 2009-2010

This year Brown College’s ViEWS Lecture Series welcomes Wendell Berry, Michael Lundblad, Rebecca Solnit, and Gary Snyder.

Wendell Berry, December 2nd-3rd

Brown College, along with Hereford College and The Bridge PAI, welcomes Wendell Berry as our visiting writer on December 2nd and 3rd. Mr. Berry will be giving a reading, free and open to the public, at 5:30 PM on Thursday, the 3rd in the Small/Harrison Special Collections Library, with a reception immediately to follow.

 

Matisse for children at New Dominion Bookshop December 12

Author Carol Lemons will be at New Dominion Bookshop to conduct a children’s activity and to sign copies of her book

Matisse and the Boy Who Loved to Draw

Saturday, December 12 from 10 AM to 12:00 Noon

Matisse and the Boy Who Loved to Draw tells the story of artist Henri Matisse in his later years as he created his “cut-outs” or collage paintings and as he designed the small Dominican Chapel of the Rosary in Vence, France. A young boy named John Paul, who also wants to become an artist, befriends Matisse and embarks on an adventure.

Carol Lemons and illustrator Holly Smith traveled to southern France to research and develop the book. Ms. Lemons is a former kindergarten teacher. She has written a text is historically accurate and set in Nice and Vence, France. The illustrations in the vivid colors and collage style of Matisse were created by artist and art teacher Holly Smith. The two teachers used the book in the lower school classrooms at the Collegiate School to introduce Matisse to young students and present art projects in the Matisse style for them to do. These activities are introduced in the last section of the book, entitled “Now It’s Your Turn.”

Marietta McCarty at New Dominion December 10

Coming to New Dominion Bookshop:

Marietta McCarty will discuss and sign copies of her book

How Philosophy Can Save Your Life: 10 Ideas That Matter Most

Thursday, December 10 at 5:30 PM

“Where’s my book?” asked sheepish adults, confessing that they were reading Little Big Minds: Sharing Philosophy with Kids for their personal enjoyment even though it was intended for grown-ups to use with children. “At last I can ‘do’ philosophy,” they beamed. Now, at last…. Here’s your very own book!

The glass half full that graces the cover of How Philosophy Can Save Your Life captures the book’s heart. Mental vigor and clarity has the power to change how we view the world and our place in it. Our outlooks shift when we think as if for the first time about the meaning and the value of the ten key ideas. Priorities rearrange themselves naturally. Good conversations and quiet reflection reveal new insights as well as old knowledge somehow forgotten. What is good living? This book is an invitation to every reader to ask that question and to enjoy unraveling the answer, piece by piece, and to have fun along the way. While it can be enjoyed alone, it is designed for respectful conversation in communities of any number. Diverse contributions in dialogue resemble the colors of a prism, all shedding more light on the topic. Personal, private reflection is thereby more productive. Ah, the realization that there are so many stories, such varied ways of seeing a vast world that has room for all. We gather together and come to know each other better.

The ten big ideas: simplicity, communication, perspective, flexibility, empathy, individuality, belonging, serenity, possibility, and joy. What do they mean, really mean? If we know better what communication is, then we will be better at it. If we think clearly about simplicity, we can indeed slow down and savor the moment. Understanding perspective enhances our own. Possibilities can be realized when we recognize them and learn to embrace opportunities. Thriving on a sense of belonging while retaining individuality can be achieved with new appreciation for what it means to belong and what it means to be true to one’s self. Empathy turns out to be smart and flexibility comes more easily as we think hard about their essence. Serenity and joy regardless of circumstance can be ours for the asking. Here’s how….

Each chapter explores one idea from many angles. First, the author presents the concept and probes for its center, explains its ongoing appeal in her philosophical circles, and paves the way for the investigation into simplicity, serenity, etc. Next, two philosophers are presented whose theories are perfect tools for close examination of possibility, empathy…. These philosophers range from ancient to modern, female to male, and represent a broad array of cultures: Plato and Jane Addams, Simone de Beauvoir and Shunryu Suzuki, Bertrand Russell and Mary Wollstonecraft, Martin Luther King and the Dalai Lama. Get ready because….

Things heat up now! Discussion questions are offered to spark your conversation. Are you an attentive listener? Does empathy come naturally to you? Is the pull of the crowd hard to resist? Have you forgotten reasons to be grateful? What part is yours to play in the world? Why had you given up on possibility? When does your heart fill? The party continues when ….

You mix and match engaging ways to continue your exploration of the slowly unfolding concept. Music of all kinds awaits: Mozart and Pink Floyd, Johnny Cash and Miriam Makeba, Miles Davis and Edith Piaf, Cat Power and Bach…. Poetry beckons: Mary Oliver and Shakespeare, Rumi and Seamus Heaney, Rita Dove and Dylan Thomas, Gabriela Mistral and Thich Nhat Hanh…. Prose perhaps: Maya Angelou and Frank McCourt, Gandhi and Bobbie Ann Mason, Steve Martin and Toni Morison, Tove Jansson and Billie Jean King…. Popcorn and a film, documentary or drama, feet up: The Hobart Shakespeareans and Hamlet, Planet Earth and A Doll’s House, Death of a Salesman and Sierra Leone’s Refugee All Stars, Emmanuel’s Gift and The Night of the Iguana….

Finally, individual and group activities are suggested, maybe one for today and one to do as a group later. All the resources used are listed at the end of each chapter.

There is no right way to use this book—plenty of ideas are offered in the introduction along with ways to start your philosophy group. Begin your evening with a movie or discussion questions if you like. Listen to music as you reflect on the concept under investigation perhaps. It’s your book now to adapt as you practice the art of clear thinking. If the reader gains as much insight and has as much fun as the author did in conversing and thinking through the ideas while writing this book, then philosophy will bring much to your life. The glass can be more than half full.

About the author:

Author of national bestseller Little Big Minds, a guide for adults to share philosophy with children, Marietta McCarty is currently Assistant Professor of Philosophy at Piedmont Virginia Community College in Charlottesville, Virginia. With the publication of How Philosophy Can Save Your Life: 10 Ideas That Matter Most, she brings philosophy alive for everyone interested in the world of ideas. Her philosophy circles ring with voices engaged in hearty conversation, the dialogue laced with laughter in a comfortable setting. Her belief in the benefits of clear thinking, rich conversation, and quiet reflection is confirmed by her readers, in testimony from her child philosophers and her college students, while hosting groups of all kinds in Charlottesville, and wherever she travels with her philosophical tool kit. Marietta’s conviction that a fulfilling, contented life stems from vigor and clarity of mind drew her to her vocation in philosophy. That an open, inquisitive mind enlarges the capacity of the heart and breeds peace ensures that she will keep her shingle out.

In her chapter titled “Love Yourself Enough,” included in the Jossey-Bass book Promoting Community Renewal Through Civic Literacy and Service Learning, the author reflects upon her role as Coordinator of Service Learning for the PVCC campus and its entire service region. For over twenty years she has served on occasion as an adjunct professor for Mary Baldwin College in Staunton, Virginia, teaching group tutorials.

Marietta enjoyed her tennis-playing, ball-throwing, book-reading, ocean-loving childhood in Richmond, Virginia. For fourteen summers, she was the director of the Blue Ridge Tennis Camp outside Charlottesville for children and adults, welcoming campers from many countries and throughout the US. A Phi Beta Kappa, Summa Cum Laude graduate in philosophy from Hollins College, she was inducted into the Hollins Athletic Hall of Fame in 1999. She received her Master’s degree in philosophy from the University of Virginia.

links for 2009-11-26

links for 2009-11-21

  • "Reader, she's in talks to marry him. Mia Wasikowska, about to hit our screens as Alice in Tim Burton's Alice in Wonderland, is in talks to star with the ace Michael Fassbender in Jane Eyre, a new adaptation of the classic novel. For those of you who slept through your literature classes, the novel by Charlotte Bronte tells the story of a young governess called Jane who goes to work for the surly and frightening Mr Rochester. Strange noises in the house and odd events seem to point to some sort of haunting or sinister goings-on, but it's only gradually that the truth becomes clear…"

    Well, we'll see. HT: DW.

links for 2009-11-20

Paul Gaston at New Dominion Bookshop December 3

Coming to New Dominion Bookshop:

Paul M. Gaston will present selections from his memoir

Coming of Age in Utopia: The Odyssey of an Idea

on Thursday, December 3 at 5:30 PM

In this exquisitely wrought memoir of a committed life, historian and civil rights activist Paul Gaston reveals his deep roots in the unique utopian community founded in 1894 by his grandfather and later led by his father.

The Fairhope colony was the creation of Ernest B. Gaston, an Iowa journalist, Populist, and communitarian reformer. Appalled by Gilded Age America, he planned a model community on the shores of Mobile Bay, Alabama. Fairhope grew into a unique political, economic, and educational experiment; a center of radical economic and educational ideals and institutions; a home to vibrant idealism and creative arts; and a haven for reformers, writers, and other visitors.

As time passed, however, Fairhope’s radical nature went into decline. Once a community where people came to solve social problems, it became a resort where they came to escape them. By the early 1950s it was clear that great changes were coming to the South, and the author began to look outward for ways to take part in the coming struggle—the civil rights movement.

Gaston’s career at the University of Virginia, where he taught from 1957–97, forms the core of Coming of Age in Utopia. For a young man looking to enter the struggle against racial injustice, Virginia was an ideal place. Virginia offered most of the white supremacy myths, values, and institutions of the Deep South but less of its violence and retribution. Beyond Virginia, his long years as an officer in the Southern Regional Council and his several visits to South Africa provided widening vistas for understanding how social change both comes about and is thwarted.

The story Gaston tells of social change both in the city of Charlottesville and the University of Virginia is one in which he played significant roles. It illustrates a truism about struggles for justice: when privilege is deeply ingrained in the social order, change must come from below. For Charlottesville, the first turn away from the closed society of segregation came in the wake of 1963 sit-ins. Violence, arrests, and a dramatic trial led previously resistant theaters, motels, restaurants, and other public facilities to open their doors to blacks. For the University, the resistance to recruitment of black students and faculty; the refusal to inaugurate a black studies program; the ongoing whiteness of athletic teams—these and other remnants of a white supremacy culture endured until a student movement, begun in 1961 and inspired by the larger Southern civil rights movement, broke the log jam of resistance eight years later and opened the way to the beginning of racial justice.

A master story teller with a compelling personal life and unique involvement in the events he describes, Gaston weaves these and other stories of struggles for social justice into a forceful narrative enriched with provocative interpretation.

About the Author

Paul Gaston, Professor Emeritus of History at the University of Virginia, was born and reared in Fairhope, Alabama, about which he has written two books. He is also the author of The New South Creed, winner of the Lillian Smith Award for distinguished writing about the South. He served for twenty-five years on the executive committee of the Southern Regional Council and has been a frequent visitor in South Africa, both before and after the fall of apartheid. He has received numerous awards and honors for both his professional work and civil rights leadership, including the outstanding professor award from the Commonwealth of Virginia; bridge builder recognition from the city of Charlottesville; legendary civil rights activist from the NAACP; and community leader, from his alma mater, Swarthmore College. He lives in Charlottesville, Virginia, with his wife of fifty-seven years, Mary Wilkinson Gaston.

Reviews

“This deeply moving memoir and absorbing social history takes Paul Gaston from an upbringing in a model utopian community in Alabama to a forty-year career as a model scholar-activist for several generations of students at the University of Virginia, marked throughout by his radical commitment to racial and economic equality and his lifelong hope in the possibility of a more humane South.”

—Matt Lassiter, Professor of History, University of Michigan.

“Contrasting places—populist Fairhope, Alabama, the utopian community turned reactionary resort, and the segregated University of Virginia become multiracial—ground Paul Gaston’s beautifully told life as an agent of change. This southern story needed to be told and now needs to be read, to remind us that positive change does not come easy. It only happens when courageous people like Paul Gaston take action, and in this case, action grew out of an inspiring community.”

—Nell Painter, Edwards Professor of History Emerita, Princeton University, former president, Southern Historical Association, Organization of American Historians.

“What a fascinating life journey it’s been for Paul Gaston—and how lucky we are that he has shared it with us in his new book. This distinguished University of Virginia professor was a lion of the civil rights movement, and his contributions remind everyone that a single person’s deep commitment can make a giant difference.”

—Larry Sabato, political commentator, director, University of Virginia Center on Politics.

“Paul Gaston’s Coming of Age in Utopia is both a compelling personal memoir and an important document of the American South during the transformative years of the civil rights era. With characteristic candor and wit, Mr. Gaston tells the story of growing up in an idealistic community in Alabama and later confronting tough challenges and harsh realities on the front lines of the desegregation battle. For nearly a half-century, Mr. Gaston has written wisely and convincingly about the American South and the civil rights struggle that transpired there. This new book will be worthwhile reading for anyone who cares about our shared past and future prospects as American citizens.”

—John T. Casteen, President, University of Virginia.

“Paul Gaston has given us two great gifts: a life well lived and a story powerfully told. Gaston has been a witness to, and a maker of, profound and humane Southern change. An enduring love of the South shines through in every act and in every sentence.”

— Edward L. Ayers, President, University of Richmond.

“The arch of his personal story moves from an unlikely experiment in utopian living, to an enduring marriage, through a distinguished career in the academic world—one that energized his engagement with the civil rights movement. Author and professor Paul Gaston is one of those most fortunate among us who has lived a wonderfully fulfilling life of quality and purpose. These pages inspire service, loyalty, education, dissent, and, most of all, the justice that inevitably follows.”

— Suzanne Hudson, novelist, Fairhope, Alabama.

“I read this touching, beautifully crafted book cover to cover, in one sitting, swept along by its honesty and immediacy, its ability to conjure up a momentous period in American history from a unique and yet unfailingly expansive and self-critical point of view. The civil rights struggle has produced an enormous body of autobiographical testimony. Paul Gaston’s wry and riveting book will take its place among the very best of these invaluable memoirs. Among its many gifts is an inside look at the impact of the movement on higher learning in the South, one of the great and relatively untold stories of the 1960s and 1970s. Most of all, Coming of Age in Utopia captures the intimate human drama of how the generation of black and white Southerners that came of age after World War II put their ideals into practice, mobilizing their gifts and transcending their own frailties to transform the South and the nation.”

— Jacquelyn Hall, Director, Southern Oral History Program, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, former president, Southern Historical Association, Organization of American Historians.

“From a utopia to a university, from growing up to growing wise, for an idea to an ideal—Paul Gaston’s compelling memoir of promoting racial justice in the South.”

—Julian Bond, Chairman, NAACP

Review of A Better Pencil at Internet Review of Books

My review of A Better Pencil by Dennis Baron is now up at the Internet Review of Books, with the teaser, “What’s better than a nice No. 2?”

Ahem. Anyway.

It was an interesting book and a good rejoinder to all the gripes about email, IM, Facebook, Twitter, etc., etc. destroying our language and the world as we know it. I am resolved to be less of an old fogey about these things from here on out.

links for 2009-11-17

Spending Friday the 13th with E. A. Poe

I had a fun assignment last Friday — recording Edgar Allan Poe at the Jefferson Society. I’ve been a Poe fan forever. Here’s the post and recording from Charlottesville Podcasting Network:

Poet, wastrel, and former University of Virginia student Edgar Allan Poe presented a selection of his best known works to the Jefferson Literary and Debating Society on Friday, November 13, 2009. Mr. Poe’s recitations included Eldorado, The Raven, and a chilling enactment of The Tell-Tale Heart.

Listen to the podcast

Scott Craig Jones is the image and voice of Edgar Allan Poe. He presents “Edgar Allan Poe Comes Alive!” to middle school, high school, and college audiences throughout the mid-Atlantic region. Find out more about The Traveling Jones Theater at his website.